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June Topic

What happened to you?

June 3, 2023 10 am - noon CST

There is a relatively new book that is entitled “What Happened to You?,” by Dr. Bruce Perry. Counter to the more common accusation, “what’s wrong with you?,” Dr. Perry’s question is rarely asked.

About 30 years ago I had a teacher who used to ask “Do you have your hands on the steering wheel or is the car driving you?” Both questions have me reflecting deeply on more formative experiences within myself and in my work with clients. I know this sounds pretty psychological, cause it is, but I think how we got where we are, what happened to us and what was formative are concerns that surface in our polyamorous relationships — all relationships perhaps — with self and others. So, what’s happened to you, to your partner(s), your families of origin? And who is driving your car?

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