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November Topic

Differences in Attraction and/or Interest: Parity & Power

November 4, 2023 10:00am to 12:00pm CST

You like each other, you get along and there is definitely a connection.  But what happens when you don’t have the same level or intensity of emotional or sexual attraction for a potential partner? What happens when each partner has different desires in terms of time spent or escalation? Lack of parity can sometimes create power imbalances. One person feels down and loses confidence feeling less attractive or less desired than other partners.  One person feels the weight of having so much attention and the pull for reciprocity.  How do you respond when you are not feeling the chemistry as strongly as someone else feels it? How do you feel when you are the one who is not as enthusiastically desired? How have you navigated these moments?

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